Today is a lot different than when I was young, a video game was just being introduced and many children didn’t even have them until later in teen years. Today it’s hard to find a child (of any age) that doesn’t have some form of video game. With the growing violence in the world one has to ask himself if it has to do with the violence these children are seeing on television and in video games.
We as parents have the responsibility to guide our children and protect them from this growing violence. Children need to be creative and explore the world around them. Having television and video games provide all the entertainment leaves the child no room to become creative and pretend.
It is not unusual for children to participate in aggressive play; this is routine play that has been going on for years. Children often have imitated what they have seen on television, such as cowboy and Indians, cops and robbers, Superman and Spiderman. The same is true for today’s children, although the fictional characters have changed.
Parents should always be aware of the movies your children are watching. Make sure they are age appropriate for the age of your child. If your unsure, then watch it yourself first and decide as to whether or not to leave your child view it.
Same goes for video games; most of these games have a rating system. Further inspection may be needed to make sure it is age appropriate.
Some children are able to handle the violence they see on television programs and movies, a video game, or even in book. Other children have a harder time in grasping the idea of pretend and real. This can be an issue when you have different aged children. Having the knowledge of what you think your child can handle will make it easier for you to help select the appropriate movies and games for each child.
A certain amount of violence is in a lot of what our children watch today, including cartoons. Even the mildest of video games have a bit of violence. Always explain the difference between pretend and real. Make it clear that acting out the roles at home will not be tolerated. Many children may have poor understanding of knowing the difference between actuality and flight of the imagination.
You should spend time playing the games with your children as well as talking with them about your child’s thoughts, feelings and opinions related to the game. You may also guide your child down the right path that leads to the safe and a sound proper personality.
Not all games are violent some games prove to be very educational while other games are just plain. They also help develop the child’s ability to plan ahead as well as develop eye-hand coordination skills.
Many video and programs are also very educational, too. Children find these programs fun to watch, while we on the other hand find them educational. Many times these programs teach our children how to count, the alphabet, interactive songs and nursery rhymes.
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